BEGGAR FOR LOVE




What keeps us disconnected from Reality is what is not resolved in us. This disconnection generates a virtual duality that blinds us to the unity of Reality's INFINITE ISness which is LOVE, the unique and only LOVE.
This is why when we are identified with our thoughts and disconnected from BEING in us, which is Reality's INFINITE ISness, we are in lack of LOVE. Since then on we confuse the demand to be loved with LOVE itself.
Most of the time when we say "I love you" what we mean in fact is "please love me". And because LOVE is Reality's INFINITE ISness and can be reached only through oneself, the beggar for LOVE one becomes when disconnected from BEING inside, cannot find LOVE in the outside world.
This explains why unconsciously we drift into a substitutive quest for surface pleasure, emotional thrill, etc., which, out of ignorance, we may mistake for LOVE. But only two people having retrieved BEING in themselves can share LOVE like two mirror facing each other dig INFINITY's depth in the other.
Love is something we find in ourself when we retrieve BEING in us, and we can only offer it to the world. LOVE is not something we can snatch or still from others. When we are identified with our thoughts and therefore disconnected from BEING in us and its INFINITY which is LOVE, consiously or not we are in demand for LOVE.
And because most people are in a secret quest for LOVE, we have no choice but find stealthy strategies to capture LOVE and suck each other at different levels of co-dependancy. People become kind of mutual defense against each other's lack of LOVE. And this sort of acting out can spark with some glitter for a short while, but then, like a chewing gum that has lost its flavour we spit our partner away and find a new one still sugary.
This explains why more and more the so-called "modern" and "loving" relationship rests upon a quality of comfort, pleasure and above all sex. We understand better why in our Consumer Society, sex has become such a huge industry and such a fascinating trigger. Yet, sex without LOVE is but violence in one way or another, and this violence reaches its culmination with rape.
In our modern and fake "loving" relationship unfortunately, both partners are still disconnected from BEING or Reality's INFINITE ISness and its LOVE, and no matter the type of pretence by which they abide, they are in the same predicament people were centuries ago. What is called "Progress" in terms of relationship is just a rearrangement of the same room with the same furnitures yet set up differently.
When still identified with our thoughts and therefore still loaded with unresolved pains and disconnected from BEING in us, we are caught in the same demand to be loved as we were with mom and dad, but disguised as adult stuff. No matter how we dress this hidden and awful demand, we're still beggars for LOVE

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